I didn’t really want to go when a new friend invited me to the little party at her house yesterday. But it turned out to be fun and I supprised myself by winning 4 out of 5 times in the poker game…

The party ended by midnight. I went back home and found a two-page complaint by my other 2 roommates. It criticized me on how I don’t clean up after cooking and making the kitchen area a mess and smelly. She even used a lot of highlights on words such as “unexceptable” (which i guess she meant “unacceptable”?).

I was totally pissed off but I decided not to talk to them as I was angry. I talked to some friends on phone. They comforted me and made me feel better. Then I remembered that yesterday afternoon when I was cooking spicy noodles I accidently knocked over the pot and it was probably at that time the soup spilled all over and got on their plates and countertop. I totally can apologize for that. It was my fault tha I didn’t notice the soup got all over the place because I was short-sighted and feeling very uncomfortable (I turned out to be sick with high fever). But they could absolutely just come talk to me instead of leaving a rude complain letter like that.

The reason why they are doing this to us is that they are having issues with us now. A few weeks ago my other roommate and I went to grocery shopping with a friend and bought ourselves strawberries. After we ate up our own straberries the other 2 girls came to us and said we ate theirs. I wasn’t there and when the other girl told me about this and how she just bought new strawberries for them without even defending ourselves I had a bad feeling about what’s going on. So it was not out of my surprise that a few days later they reached us for an yard after taking an inch and claimed that we used their pepper sauce.

Speaking of cleaning up after cooking, while yesterday was the only time that I can be caught not cleaning up fully and I didn’t intend to (I would definitely clean if I noticed that but unfortunately I didn’t), I have been extremely discontented that they never ever washed their plates and pots after cooking and just piled them up in the sink, not to mention wiping the countertop, which I have been cleaning up after them for the 2 whole months that we’ve been living together. They even used our pots for 2 times to fry food and left all that nasty oil in our pots. I never even complained when they didn’t dump the garbage at their turn, or occupied both the washer and the drier and just left them that way. They have been inviting friends over oftenly and making all the noises even after midnight. We have discussed about that and they agreed that there will be no more noises after midnight. And the night before yesterday they invited like 10 friends to my apartment at 4 a.m. walking around, laughing and talking. I went outside and I only asked them 2 questions:”Do you guys realized it’s 4 a.m. in the morning?” “Are you going to throw a party here?” And I went back to my room. The next day one girl came to my door and apologized. And I accepted that. So what awaits me next is the complain letter that basically came out of nowhere? Should I write complain letters on everything that they did wrong and stick them on the countertop with big fonts and highlights of all colors?

They are just acting so rude, immature, and unrespectful. Give them an inch and they will take a yard. From now on I will not always think too much about the whole ”we are going to live together for 1 whole year and I will just compromise” thing. I am gonna stand up for our own benefit and we won’t let them bully us like this any more.

So as I said this post is totally complaining – I am sick. Last night I was 100.4. I felt so cold and put a lot of clothes on with me to sleep. It’s now 99 and probably the effect of the medicine. I still feel painful all over my body and I doubt whether I can make it to alex and jason’s house tonight… I would hate to call them saying I can’t make it again. Alex has been inviting me and my roommate for several weeks and I have always been too busy. We’ll just see how things go after Xing gets back.